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Top Persuaders Easily Impact Emotions

Over the years, you, like me have had fun, exciting, joyful, and happy experiences that you can instantly remember when prompted to do so. For example, I distinctly remember my Mom giving me my first bicycle. It was royal blue! The handlebars had motorcycle style racing grips and it had an 8 inch wide ten speed type seat with shock-absorber-like coil springs underneath. As you might imagine, I spent many hours riding that bike, alone and with friends, for countless miles. What fun times I had! Can you remember your first bike?

Why do you remember? The short explanation is… you were in a heightened emotional state of excitement, joyfulness, or happiness back then. Additionally, you went on to have many pleasurable moments while riding your bike, didn’t you? Anyway, you might be asking, “What does this have to do with persuasion?” Good question!
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Influence and Persuasion: Why You Buy What You Buy

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In a time of economic uncertainty, people tend to tighten their purse strings, only purchasing what’s needed. What’s great about that is most people in our society don’t buy what they need, they buy what they want. Don’t believe me? That’s fine. May I ask you a question?

How many people do you know who drive expensive, luxurious SUVs such as the Cadillac Escalade ($50,000)? I humbly submit to you that they didn’t “need” that expensive of an automobile, they wanted it. They wanted the feelings of luxury, power, accomplishment, and uniqueness that come from driving such a wonderfully made vehicle. However, I also submit to you that they give themselves the permission to feel that way after buying that automobile, when in actuality they could’ve decided to feel those emotions without the price tag.

What that means is, we have been conditioned by advertisers to believe that in order to feel a certain way, we have to buy their clients’ clothes, cars, and jewelry. Is there anything wrong with that? You’ll have to answer that question. I simply wanted to shed some light on the fact that you can feel anyway you want, when you want, and without drugs. lol

Am I suggesting that you stop buying what you want, and only buy what you need? Absolutely not! However, I am advising you to decide to feel good now, whether you have what you want or not. It’s your choice. Isn’t it?

With your success in mind,

Ron

Think Like An Ethical Persuasion Expert

Many years ago, I went to visit Tim, one of my closest friends and his fiery, red headed, girlfriend, Nancy, in their high rise apartment. Right away I noticed an unusual tension in the air. As it turned out, Tim and Nancy had been arguing. Nancy’s face was flush and she was sniffling. On the other hand, Tim was clearly very irritated.

Initially, I thought about leaving them to continue their heated discussion. However, Nancy promptly grabbed her purse and coat and left. I quickly asked Tim,”What’s the matter?” In an angry tone of voice he responded, “Nancy left a *x#@ cup of juice on my keyboard again!” While Tim was talking he walked over to his keyboard and pointed at a circle of water remaining from the cup. He went on to say, “I’ve told her over and over again to not put drinks on my keyboard but she does it anyway. I’m tired of this crap!”
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Subconscious Tools of Influence

Listen to David Lorenzo, partner at the Gallup Organization and I as we discuss scientifically proven tools of influence that move people to make decisions in their best interest and yours. Enjoy!
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Social Influence Gone Bad

After watching the video, did you say to yourself, “I would’ve stood my ground and continued giving the correct answer.” If you said that to yourself, or something similar, I’m not surprised. I’ve heard similar statements from others that have seen or heard me describe the scenario in the video. I certainly told myself with absolute certainty that’s what I would have done. The reason I would’ve done so, and I’m assuming your reason’s the same, is I wouldn’t lie. In particular, it is due to the fact that the scenario is based on such a trivial circumstance.

But, what about a circumstance that isn’t trivial? How about one that pertains to our health and well-being? Stick with me here.
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Perceptual Persuasion Strategy: NLP Reframing

Hi, Ron Hudson here! Welcome back to the Immediate Influence Blog. It’s been quite a while since my last post. In fact, I’ve gone almost 30 days without posting anything. But, here I am today to reveal a powerful strategy of influence known as Reframing. Reframing enables you to alter, shift, or change an individual’s and/or audience’s perceptions about an experience, idea, political view, product, etc.

Last week, a friend of mine who serves in our country’s military sent me an email of which you are about to read a portion now. After reading this portion of the email, I guarantee you will walk away understanding the power of Reframing. Ready?

“Luke AFB is west of Phoenix and is rapidly being surrounded by civilization that complains about the noise from the base and its planes, forgetting that it was there long before they were. A certain lieutenant colonel at Luke AFB deserves a big pat on the back. Apparently, an individual who lives somewhere near Luke AFB wrote the local paper complaining about a group of F-16s that disturbed his/her day at the mall.”

The complaint:

“Question of the day for Luke Air Force Base:

Whom do we thank for the morning air show? Last Wednesday, at precisely 9:11 A.M., a tight formation of four F-16 jets made a low pass over Arrowhead Mall, continuing west over Bell Road at approximately 500 feet. Imagine our good fortune! Do the Tom Cruise wannabes feel we need this wake-up call, or were they trying to impress the cashiers at Mervyns early bird special?

Any response would be appreciated.”

Name withheld

-end of complaint

The response:

“Regarding ‘A wake-up call from Luke’s jets’ on June 15, at precisely 9:12 a.m., a perfectly timed four-ship fly by of F-16s from the 63rd Fighter Squadron at Luke Air Force Base flew over the grave of Capt. Jeremy Fresques. Capt. Freques was an Air Force officer who was previously stationed at Luke Air Force Base and was killed in Iraq on May 30, Memorial Day.

At 9 a.m. on June 15, his family and friends gathered at Sunland Memorial Park in Sun City to mourn the loss of a husband, son and friend. Based on the letter writer’s recount of the fly by, and because of the jet noise, I’m sure you didn’t hear the 21-gun salute, the playing of taps, or my words to the widow and parents of Capt. Fresques as I gave them their son’s flag on behalf of the President of the United States and all the veterans and servicemen and women who understand the sacrifices they have endured…

A four-ship fly by is a display of respect the Air Force gives to those who give their lives in defense of freedom. We are professional aviators and take our jobs seriously, and on June 15 what the letter writer witnessed was four officers lining up to pay their ultimate respects.

The letter writer asks, ‘Whom do we thank for the morning air show? The 56th Fighter Wing will make the call for you, and forward your thanks to the widow and parents of Capt. Fresques, and thank them for you, for it was in their honor that my pilots flew the most honorable formation of their lives.”

Lt. Col. Grant L. Rosensteel, Jr.

USAF

-end of response

I imagine that it’s safe to assume that the complainant’s perception of that event was completely altered. Wouldn’t you agree? I’m also willing to make a second assumption about the emotional state of the complainant. I’m guessing that he/she went from indignant sarcasm to embarrassed, humbled, and sad for Capt. Fresques wife and parents. What emotions did you experience right after reading the complaint? How quickly did the response cause a shift in your emotions? That’s the power of Reframing.

In closing, it’s difficult to know all of what is going on in many situations that may cause you to feel angry, sad, frustrated, etc., so do yourself a favor in the future and ask yourself these simple questions: How do I feel about being ___ about this? What else might be going on here that I’m totally unaware of now? In asking those questions, you’ll notice the intensity of your emotion(s) lessen, and you’ll be able to handle tense situations much better. Will you do that for yourself?

One more thing. I encourage you to invest time today to let our servicemen and women know how grateful you are for their willingness to die for our freedom.

May God bless the military forces of these United States! Thank you all.

With gratitude and respect,

Ron

10 Powerful Offers that Influence Buyers Decisions in Your Favor

Today I, like you, will see or hear a number of commercials for a plethora of products and services. Naturally, we’ll ignore a significant amount of the commercials and continue focusing on whatever activity is a priority in the moment. That is, until one of the commercials is able to convey a message similar to the one at end of the following video.

One of my favorite copywriter’s of all time is Brian Keith Voiles. Brian is one of the most honest, caring, talented, and gifted people I’ve ever met in my life. During the time that I learned copywriting from him, he absolutely shocked me. You see, he taught me that the most powerful part of a salesletter (a commercial in print) isn’t the headline but the offer. Anyway, I was inclined to believe him for two reasons. The first reason was his impressive list of clients. The second reason was his results!

Before, during, and after you write any salesletter that you truly want to increase the size of your bank account review the following short list:

1. Free Trial – Simply put, this offer means allowing someone to try out your product free for a specific period of time. The common periods are 10, 15, or 30 days or more. The power of this offer lies in it’s removal of risk from the transaction for your prospect.

2. Bill Me Later – This is a popular offer amongst magazine and newspaper publishers. The customers make a decision to subscribe now at a discounted price – but are billed after several issues have been mailed. How many publishers have induced you to subscribe with that offer?

3. Free Gift – Offering customers, who are considering your product or service, a free gift can be all the incentive needed for them to buy. However, allowing them to keep that gift, even if they return the product, will typically cause a dramatic increase in sales. Will people take advantage? Yes. Why do it? Tests have proven that the significant increase in sales outweighs the number of returns.

4. Money-Back Guarantee – Generally, people feel slightly uncertain about making purchasing decisions. Therefore, it is important to eliminate that feeling by offering to give a full refund for products after they are returned. Again, the sales increases for companies offering Money-Back Guarantees far surpass the numbers of returns.

5. Double-Your-Money-Back-Guarantee – Our research shows that most people won’t return products, so companies will often dramatize their offer for low priced items this way.

6. Long-Term-Guarantee – When a company is confident that their product or service will deliver, they will offer guarantees that extend beyond the common 30- or 60-day guarantee. They will offer customers a one-year, multi-year, or lifetime guarantee.

7. Early-Bird Discount – This offer motivates customers to order fast and sometimes more of a product. A word of advice. Make the discount a real discount.

8. Price Increase Announcement – It’s amazing how few companies communicate with their existing customers prior to increasing their prices. This offer can endear customers to a company because they feel important when given such an opportunity. In turn, they will buy the company’s products and oftentimes buy more than needed. Additionally, they tell their family, friends, and co-workers.

9. No Contract, Cancel Anytime – Often used by businesses offering continuity type programs, this offers customers right to use a product (i.e., perishable items) or service for as long as they want without any commitment. Fitness clubs are one type of business that offer members this opportunity because a small segment of our society will continue using the facility for more than 90 days. This way, the fitness club avoids chancing members who will sign a year long agreement, but stop paying their bill after 90 days.

10. Free Demonstration – This works quite well for all types of products and services because the customer convinces himself that a product or service is right for him. Needless to say, once a customer has convinced himself a product or service will work for him, he will buy that product or service rather quickly.

There are many types of offers to make to prospective/existing customers to influence their buying decision in your favor. I thought this short list would be helpful to you in making that happen for your business. Thanks for reading!